Google 'hoe' and the urban dictionary states 'don't marry that hoe, she sucked too many dicks...you can't turn a whore into a housewife" this episode we discuses logic. Is this statement is true?? and does everyone have there own personal opinion on the definition of a hoe. Are you a hoe or doing hoe-ish things without even knowing it lol comment below and discuss on Twitter with the hash tag #TinyTalks follow me on officially_Tiny
Episode 2 – Sexual Fantasies
Tiny Bedroom Talk is a new raw & uncut Sex and Relationship show. That will have you dying laughing in the process. Tune in Every other Saturday at 1pm for fun raunchy topics that will be leaving you in tears or giving your partner the side eye. There are no limits or censorship on our show. So if your ready for the real, visit Tinysbedroomtalk.com and please tweet us at @officially_Tiny with the hash-tag #TinysTalk to discuss topics on the show and share your own opinion!!
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Tiny Bedroom talk Ep1: Turn on’s & off’s
Tiny Bedroom Talk is a new raw & uncut sex and relationship show. that will have you laughing in the process. Tune in Every Saturday 1pm for fun raunchy topics that will be leaving you in tears or giving your partner the side eye. There are no limits or censorship on our show. So if your ready for the real, visit Tinysbedroomtalk.com and please tweet us at @officially_Tiny with the hash-tag #TinysTalk to discuss topics on the show and share your own opinion!!
Welcome to Tiny’s Bedroom Talk
Welcome to Tiny’s Bedroom talk.
I want to first say thank you from coming to my blog. I hope that Tiny’s bedroom talk will open your mind about sex and relationships, my guest and I will be discussing in weekly written articles and video’s and reviews on the fundamental issue and misconception to do with sex and relationships, from our opinions.
Just to give you guys a little insight of myself. My name is Tiye Walcott also known as Tiny. I’m not a sex and relationship expert but this is something I love to talk about and learn about. Well I am a 22 graduate, inspiring entrepreneur. I wanted to have a career in sex and relationships working for a lingerie and adult toy retailers and have been the agony aunt to my friends for the last 5 years. 100% with my words and only speak the truth because I have no shame in the person I am. I know who I am and what I stand for. I love to laugh and want all aspects of this blog to be fun and entertaining.
In terms of relationships and sex. In my 22 years of life I have taken almost every roll a chick could have. I’ve been the girl in a long committed relationship, broke up then went back. The girl who was Rihanna but lost to karrueche. The girl who had a sex buddy. I’ve done friends with benefits. I’ve had a long distance relationship. The girl that dated multiply people at the same time (dated, not sex). The girl that has issues with pattern and dealing with the same type of man. Finally now, the girl who is single and knows actually what she wants in a relationship and will not settle for anything. I’m currently dating and having fun.
Some of the Issues we will be discussing on Tiny’s bedroom talk is how to show your love, toys in the bed room. I want to take the taboo out of talking about sex and relationship. Learn and share information about relationship to a generation who know hardly anything about love and have a lot misconceptions about sex.
This is what I love to talk about and I hope you guys enjoy it and get involved. Please leave a comment on this post or and any topic you would like to be discussed in the future
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5 Ways To Avoid Relationship Problems Online
Can social media get you in trouble with your other half? Is there any expectations you will be expected to fulfil once you get into a relationship? Is there any point in posting pictures of you and ‘bae’ all over your social networks, if you’ll only have to delete them if you split up? How do you know if the Instagram comments you leave are crossing the line? Tiye picks out five unwritten situations that you may want to avoid, once you and ‘bae’ become official.
Should I Be Following My Partner?
You need to be following your partner on the Internet. The concept of not following your partner on social media as a way of avoiding drama is foreign to me! If there’s nothing to hide, I don’t see the issue. Social media has a life of its own, so if you’re not involved in your other half’s online world, then he/she is basically living a double life.
Reading someone’s tweets gives you a greater understanding into their mind. He could be Drake to you and Rick Ross on Insta, flossing and boasting about a life you know nothing about! Do you want to be with a fraud? I don’t think so.
If you’ve been in a relationship with someone longer than a year and you both aren’t following each other,someone (or perhaps both of you), have something to hide. Trust me when I say, everyone acts different if they know they’re not being watched. Get following.
Sliding Into DM’s?
Definition: Popping up into other peoples direct messages in a sexually or flirtatious manner, uninvited and unwarranted.
This is generally what I think of sliding in to DM’s: INAPPROPRIATE!!! No one in any circumstances should be sliding into anyone’s DM’s. That is highly disrespectful to the person you are in a relationship with. For example, my ex-boyfriend sent me a DM with an old picture of us while he was in a relationship. I find it inappropriate, and after cussing him, I never spoke to him again. Think of it like going into someone’s bedroom uninvited, knocking s**t over, and leaving. Sliding in to people’s DMs can cause drama for their relationship and even yours. If you can’t say it on a public timeline chances are, you should keep that thought to yourself. Don’t be a douche.
Can I Comment? Like?…Or Nah?
To keep it on the safe side, I would suggest that you do not comment on anybody’s page of the opposite sex. Take it from me, a simple comment can turn into World War III for you reeeaaalll quick. To a crazy female (I admit, I used to be one myself) those emoji with the hearts for eyes will get you messed up. To some females, that is code for, ‘I want you’ or, ‘If I was single…’ Sorry, but that’s just how we feel sometimes, so if you don’t want to lose your trainer collection, or suddenly start finding holes in your clothes, I suggest you don’t comment.
Picture Posting
If we’ve been together for longer than six months and we are on good terms then there should be a post of me/us on your Instagram page. I’m sorry but there is no reason for the most important person in your life to be absent. I don’t care if this is your artist page, your business page, or your family page. If there is a picture of your boys and your cousins there should be a pic of me. If not, it seems to me that you want to look single. Hiding me is just going to make me paranoid, and then accusations of cheating start and as we all know, that’s no fun for anyone. If you want to enjoy your relationship, and not have her mouth running over petty things then post that picture at least once a month so the world knows that we’re together.
To Pree Or Not To Pree? That Is The Question…
This is like playing that game Operation – a sly movement of the wrong finger can cause a buzz all through Instagram. If you accidentally like someone’s picture on Instagram, or favourite someone’s tweet on twitter, it could go from 0 to 100 real quick. Imagine you’re stalking your partner’s ex and you accidentally hit ‘like’ you’ll look psychotic! Or you could be trying to keep tabs on your partner by stalking their best friend’s social media, and then you favourite a tweet whilst you was scrolling through the timeline! You will look crazy. What I’m trying to say is that if you must spy, spy smart. You’ve been warned.
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Sex Toy Review – Silicone G Whizz Neon Pink Vibrator
Ann Summers – Silicone G Whizz Neon Pink Vibrator
This angled tipped vibrator targets the g-spot to give ultimate stimulation for stronger orgasms. With 7 different vibration function with an easy to control button. This silicon coating waterproof vibrator is perfect bath and shower fun.
Quality 5/5
Power 4/5
Orgasm 4/5
Quietness 3/5
Design 4/5
This is my little secret I love her soo much. To be honest I don’t use this product the way it is meant to be used. Although it meant used as g-spot stimulate it didn’t work for me at all the fact that its only 1 inch around (side eye) does not feel amazing inside and I doesn’t do nothing for me really. As I didn’t want to waste my money, I found another purpose. As a Clit stimulate it is amazing so soft and strong against the clit. The fact you can change the speeds so easy is a plus. Switching it up is you clit doesn’t get numb lol from the strong vibes also the quick speed up when you about to hit that SPOT. I love this toy. I think it’s my favorite of all time. As it’s easy to travel with, also can get your partner in on it and they don’t feel intimidated but the size and it cute and girly. Perfect for a first vibrator. I would recommend this for the clit and for partner play but as a solo vibrator to insert there is differently better. So don’t bother for that.
http://www.annsummers.com/p/silicone-g-whizz-neon-pink-vibrator/07ncsvas1088041
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Is there something wrong with me??
So two weeks ago, I did something that I do not encourage any single female to do…I looked up my ex’s. And to be honest, what I found did nothing but make me feel a little crap. When looking up your ex you want to find that they have turn bummy, in prison or have baby mama drama. So you’re extremely happy that you missed that bullet and you’re doing 10 times better without them. THAT DIDN’T HAPPEN. Okay, yeah sure career-wise I’m doing better than him but why am I single? Please tell me.
This made me question…what’s wrong with me? The guy I once thought I was spending the rest of my life with, I’m sure is now engaged and living with his fiance, my recent ex of two years is now in a relationship and the last guy I was dating is posing in bed with a new chick on snap chat! So am I the stepping-stone to them finding The One? I teach them how to love and how to treat a girl then they go and love someone else.
To be honest, in most of these situations I’ve cut these people off and yes, I have had a couple trying to come and resurface into my life. But it still hurts not knowing that they could be giving new girls what I wanted from them.
Of course, they could be being treating them the same as they treated me, which is more likely, but at the time of this ‘research’ I was thinking the worst. I started to think of all the issues I’ve had in my relationships and the patterns I’ve seen. Once I get into a relationship I put myself of the back burner and focus on the relationship and making it work. I think I lose what they fell in ‘like’ with, (the driven, independent chick) as I become dependent on them.
It’s in my nature to want to help and push people to achieve their dreams, and I lose myself and my dreams because I really want this to work. I’m a fixer. I’m trying to fix everyone’s issues (family & friends as well) and not focusing on myself. I give more then I should to someone that is not giving me the same. I also think it has gotten worse since my mother moved countries. Maybe because I’ve never had a stable man in my life I want it so bad that I put too much pressure on my relationships to work. I don’t know. This is a pattern that I’m working on. I know that I use to hold on to relationships that I know are not good for me because I didn’t want to be alone. Although I’m not at this point anymore, it’s something I needed to acknowledge.
After feeling sorry for myself for a day to two…(okay three) I had a real look at myself and realised and remembered the kind of person I am and what I bring to the table. I’m bringing weight to the table! Emotionally, I am the most supportive person ever. I’m the girlfriend that will buy you a present for you just for you trying your best in a test, just to let you know much I appreciate you or put a smile on your face. I help you with your work and look after you when you’re sick. I will do anything I can to make you know that you’re wanted. I just treat people how I would like to be treated. I know that that my pros out weight my cons, and most importantly, I would date me!
You have to ask if you would you date yourself, if the answers no – honey, you got work to do! Self-love comes before anything. How do you expect anyone to want to you if you don’t like you? Or value you if you don’t value yourself?
What I realised is that there is actually nothing wrong with me (or you)…it just isn’t our time. God (or whatever you believe in) has something better then you can even imagine. If you look back at your ex imagine how your life would really be like now if you were still with them.
I could have a child by now and I wouldn’t have graduated at university of my dreams. I don’t think I would be unhappy but I wouldn’t be as independent as I am now. And as for my recent ex, With that one, guys…I wouldn’t even be in this country (it’s a long story).
Please, just remember this: You are no less of a woman if you’re not in a relationship. You need to love yourself first and feel complete alone before you can be someone else. For me, making my career about sex and relationships makes me think about my relationship past constantly but, now I’ve pushed it to the back of my mind. It will happen when the time is right. Until then I will date in abundance and do a lot of sex toy research 😉
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Dealing with a Broken Heart
You’ve broken up with the person you thought was the love of your life and the world has ended. You can’t see pass the present moment but it will get better, promise! Here are some tips to begin the healing process.
Give yourself time to grieve a heartbreak. Sometimes it’s best to evaluate what happened, what went wrong and how you can prevent it the next time around. Think of it as receiving a marked assignment from a teacher. Look back over it and read the feedback so you know what to continue doing and what to do differently. One of my favourite quotes comes to mind: “You can’t do the same thing over and over and expect different results.” Although there is no quick fix to mend a broken heart are some of my tips to begin the healing process.
Coming To Terms With Deception
Come to terms with any lies. The person you invested your time and emotions in has lied to you. And that’s okay, they are the coward in this for continuing the relationship whilst keeping secrets. Coming to terms with lies makes you realise how much you didn’t really know the person and only fell in love with the idea of what you thought they were. Although that hurts it will slowly release your tie to them. You will become more disappointed than hurt.
Accept (Part Of) The Blame
Did you in any way set yourself up for heartbreak? Were you planning your future together alone which inevitably contributed to the end of your relationship? These are serious questions you have to ask yourself. You were putting a lot in but unfortunately, the return on investment was not saying a damn thing. Unfortunately women tend to do this a lot. We often imagine and plan a future life with our other half, aloneand we’re left heartbroken when that dream is unfulfilled.
On To The Next One?
Do not go from one to the next without healing. Settling down with the rebound is a myth (most of the time) especially if you’re a relationship type of person. This just transfers all your emotions onto the next person. They may treat you better than the situation you just came out from and you will fall deep and fast because you will constantly be comparing the two. You’ll apply pressure on this relationship to go places that the last one didn’t and even fulfil the same goals, which isn’t fair on either of you.
Alone Time
Spend time alone and think about what you will and will not stand for in your next relationship. Try and learn something from every situation, good and bad. Also spend some time thinking about the kind of qualities you do want so when he/she comes there is no second-guessing. It’s important to have some along time so you can gather your thoughts. I have seen first hand what repeating the same cycle can do on more than one occasion simply because I repeatedly ignored what the universe was trying to teach me.
Slow & Steady
Get back into the dating game slowly. There may be more than one potential deserving of your love and that is fine but remember slow and steady wins the race. I don’t care what anyone says – sex brings so much more of a emotional connection. And if you’re like me – someone that loves love and loves to be in love – you will confuse the connection and it could blow up in your face. Don’t settle or start dating exclusively unless one of them is willing to give you the full commitment you’re looking for.
Stay happy.
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5 Types Of Guys You Could Be Dating
Disclaimer: It goes without saying that there are many personalities other than the five listed, after all I didn’t mention the clingy type or the baby daddies, no shade intended. This list is one of personal encounters and does not intend to cause offence.
Mummy’s Boys
Now his mother will always be first, but if he spends too much time with his mother beyond the shopping trips, like drinking tea in her bed watching Emmerdale, that’s too much. If she feels you’re stealing her spot by taking her son, she might be secretly plotting to get rid of you. Now I don’t know exactly how she will do this but if his ex-girlfriend seems to pop up at family functions and his mum is bringing her up every time you’re in the house, you better hide because you’re under attack. It’s a creeper. You will end up going to his house less and slowly be removed from that part of his life. Then it’s over. Ultimately if his mother doesn’t like you, you done. Peak for you.
Saying that, I don’t see the negative with a mummy’s boy just along as he doesn’t let her opinion if negative control his opinion of me. You must respect his parents – if he cancel plans because his mother is sick, don’t be mad, be happy he has respect for the woman that raised him. Once you’re around her more maybe you can help by making soup. If his mummy is on your side and you’re in with the family, you might as well plan the wedding and throw a party because you. are. in. there.
Jealous Type
The ‘Jealous type’ is the one that says some messed up, reckless things but you may currently think of it as bants you may even think he say’s some things because he cares. Erm, no – he’s crazy. If a guy says anything along the lines of “If you talk to next man I might have to bad you up”, then take that as gospel. He is serious. If you’re not allowed male friends and the thought of you going to a work function or carnival makes him mad, run for the hills and claim your freedom. If a man hides his iPhone under your pillow recording your convo with your girls, in the hopes of catching you talking about another guy, he’s the jealous type. My friend wasn’t even allowed to come over my house with permission because her man was worried my brother or neighbour potentially flirting with her. With these guys, he feels you will leave him because you’re the better one in the relationship, and he knows you could do better. I don’t really see any positive with being with a jealous man because that can lead to control. But I guess you can say he cares…..maybe.
Baller
We should really split this into real or fake ballers. I’m not talking about the ones on Insta posing with the one Ciroc bottle that he and his 90 friends all put in for. The scrub on the passenger’s side of his best friend’s ride and posts images on Insta acting like it’s his. NO. I’m talking the ambitious, hard-working man that is not always rich but his mentality proves he has the ability to be a real big baller one day. The positive is that he’s motivating – he’s going to push you to be just as great, so you can build your empire together, Jay-Z and Beyonce style. He will treat you to the finest of gifts. Oh the luxury life.
The problem here is that all the qualities you see in him, these nasty-ratchet-man-stealing-gold-digging-groupie-side-chicks, will also see and be on the hunt for your man. They will want him because they see him as a meal ticket. Be proud of what you have and if you have issues with these females check them if you have to. Don’t cause drama for no reason. Pick your battles. Remember, he’s yours and nobody else’s, honey. Hopefully.
The Funny Guy
Oh, how I love a guy that can make me laugh, when the bants is on a 100. That can be the best relationship ever. You feel like you’re dating your best friend and you can’t stay mad at the person once they tell you a joke or give you a little smile. However, that’s exactly the problem after a while. They don’t take anything seriously. It’s not everyday joke. It’s not everyday bants. Sometimes be serious. If you are having serious concerns about the direction of your relationship and try to voice that and he laughs in your face and tries to bust joke…the outrage! I couldn’t deal. I would be sooo mad. Jesus take the wheel. I think funny is a good trait to have but border-line thinking you’re a comedian is pushing. You are NOT Kevin Hart, so do not (side eye). I’m currently dating a ‘funny guy’ and I’m always laughing. Acting like we’re in a music videos in the car, he’s the rapper and I’m the video girl. Late night shopping, being pushed in a trolley. We act like fools together and it’s dope.
Roadman
Just understand that your road man is always on duty. If he gets a call at the 12 at night he is rolling. You can’t say no. It’s just how it is. Accept it or bounce. No point of being with him and complaining about the amount of time he doesn’t spend with you but spends on road. Saying that, he will provide for his family by any means. Some of the most affectionate men I have dated have been the road type. They have to be tough when out there hustling for their lives and in my experience they tend to let their guard down, so when he’s with you he’s a softy. In my time of dating road men the positives were always the gifts and nice cars. Swag on point. However, the reason I am done with them is the fact that you are never 100% safe. Although they give you the impression that you are safe and you know they will do anything to protect you, their ‘JOB’ comes with a lot of unnecessary drama. You can’t roll to certain places cause of conflicting postcodes. It’s not a way to live. It’s all long and political. It’s fine when your 16 but 22. Naw. Allow it.
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